(Published - Today June 28, 2014)
As a husband and father, I am supportive of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Singaporeans.
Moreover, I cannot allow myself to be misrepresented by those who leverage the rhetoric of “family”, “marriage” and “children” to put down LGBT people.
I find it condescending and dehumanising to trivialise sexuality as a “lifestyle” and unnatural.
This issue has unnecessarily polarised Singapore.
I believe faith and religion can coexist with harmonious diversity and a respect for people, regardless of their persuasions and orientation. It is not a zero-sum game.
I doubt what Pink Dot stands for will affect our loyalty in friendships, faithfulness in marriage, love in parenthood and commitment to our religious communities.
While there may be different ideological persuasions, we share a common responsibility in this diverse and multicultural space for ensuring that others are not inconvenienced or made to feel small.
Singapore needs to be more tolerant, accepting and respectful of people, regardless of gender and sexuality.
Ho Chi Sam